Monday, February 8, 2010


Hi friends! T0day, I will share my perspective about LOVE! Sound interesting, right?? Hehe! For me love is emotions related to a sense of strong affection and attachment. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure. This diversity of uses and meanings combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to define compared to other emotional states.
F0r me, love knows no reasons, knows no lies, defies all reasons, has no eyes and the most thing, love is not blind, it sees but it doesn't mind. Even our love ones are not handsome like our friend’s boyfriends but it still does not matter. It does not mean it blind but it doesn’t mind. Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation. Love is so easy to feel, so hard to explain, easy to get, so hard to let go, easy to spell but so hard to define…
LOVE…. Even it can break our heart but everyone is still taking the risks.
*Feeling that's seen in one's eyes.
*Sight of the sunset and sunrise.
*Joy that make people smile but it also pain that makes people cry.
*To love is to feel the other so dear.
*To the point you taste his or her tears.
*Love doesn't seek what's not there.
*It accepts all pains to bear.
*Love that doesn't die but we just can't see it but we feel it.
*Love just like a bird… It will fly if you held it too lightly but it will die if you held it too tightly.

In words, love can be read. In actions, love can be measured but others don't know that even in silence, love can be heard. The meaning of love is inexplicable. It can't be described similarly by everyone but one thing's for sure, love begins with friends. Love is created NOT by words but by feelings. It’s NOT by humans but by hearts and it is better expressed in deeds than in words. For love has no definition, it exists. Never expect love to be always at its best, because if you do, you will never appreciate its existence. Remember, that there will always be one true love for you, to have and hold. It may not be one you expect but it's the one you deserve. Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you, give you joy and strength, but sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end. It’s more hurt when the people you love are our friend’s boyfriends. It makes us feel guilty but at the same time, we still want him. Maybe it not happens to all of you, but it happen to me. But now, I promise to myself to forget him… “Wish me luck okay!!” hehe.. This happen because, love works in magical ways, but never be fooled by the promise of forever. I always heard a couple make that promise but it just lies because there will come a time when the spark will die and when that time comes, we must learn to let go, no matter how painful. Love can never be wrong but it's the people that go wrong. So friends, learn from your mistakes and don't correct a mistake with another one.
In the course of love, ones heart must be brave enough to hold on when things go wrong and brave enough to let go when they realize that things are not meant to be. Just let him go, if he not mines…Because love cannot never be forced or created if it was never meant to be. Love may leave your heart like a shattered glass but keep in mind that there's someone who'll be willing to endure the pain of picking up the pieces so you could be whole again. There's always pain and disappointment when falling in love, but continue sharing your love cause the more you love, the more you'll get to know yourself, cause every person you love becomes your reflection.
My advice, let love be the guide to your dreams, let love be the light to your heart, let your love be the reason why somebody else's heart still continuous to beat. Loving is NOT how you forget but how you forgive, it’s NOT how you listen but how you understand, NOT what you see but what you feel and NOT how you let go but how you hold on.
Letting go of someone you truly love is hard but holding on to someone who doesn't feel the same is much harder. I already feel that and it really makes me feel hurt. Friends, giving up don’t mean you're weak. It only means that you're strong enough to let go. "If you love someone, set him free. If he comes back, he's yours. If he doesn't, he never was". It really hurts to love someone who doesn't give you the time of day, but what will hurt more is when you realize that someone whom you don't give the time of day loved you and gave it up because you loved someone else.

Love is a contradiction. It's hard to find but easy to lose, it makes you feel good but hurts you so bad, it opens your eyes but makes you blind and fills up your heart but tears it apart. Love is like air and you can't see it but you can feel it. Loving people means giving them the freedom to be who they choose to be. Love is allowing people in your life to make choices. Love is a noble act of self giving, offering your trust, faith and loyalty. The more you love, the more you lose a part of you, yet you don't become less of who you are, you just end up being complete. Love need not stand in front of us to be recognized. If it's far for the eyes to see, it has power close enough for the heart to feel. For example, if you want a butterfly, don't run after it. Instead, sit down and it will surely land on your palm when it needs some rest. That's how true love is found. People can't define what love really is unless they feel it.

My hope just now, someone that hold my heart right now is my true love and it will be forever…..=)


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